Tips on How to enjoy a SINGLE LIFE

Sunday, August 22, 2010
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Enjoying a Single Life is  tough and a hard-hitting mania to do especially if you are used of being in a relationship for a long time. It is also a spiteful and envious sensation to those who haven’t immune with that kind of life (love life). I’ve been in various relationships, have gone break-ups and facing singlehood afterwards not just in a short  period time but the other way around – good thing is “I never feel blue” I’m enjoying instead. Well, I guess I could share something about “enjoying tips”, and I hope this would somehow be helpful especially to those who still thrashing about being single. 

SEEK FULFILLMENT AND BE PASSIONATE
                    Have a goal in life and live by it every day. Be positive and have a purpose for getting out of bed every morning, Do something that would invigorate you and puts emphasis on being truly alive and know-how the things that bring you true enjoyment.

    PAMPER AND TREAT YOURSELF
                      Do nice things for yourself, go on travel – take a trip to any place that you have always wanted to visit. Watching movies, Gym work-out, hang out with friends, swimming; yoga sessions or you could simply read your favorite book. Just anything that would relieve you from stress. Always remember that having a life full of such delectable moments will improve your whole outlook.

      BUILD A COMMUNITY

                        Have a break, socialize and have fun! Join any clubs, organization or a different community that captures your interest. Reach out to people who you come along with, bond and strengthen your communal knot. With this, you will have friends in your life who truly care about you, you would feel so blessed having them part of your life; meeting many of your needs, fine-tune with different personalities and an opportunity to develop a Godly character.



        DON'T PLACE YOUR FOCUS ON "GETTING THERE"

          Don’t rush things out! All you have to do is wait wait wait and enjoy! Don’t be affected of what the naysayers says – just totally ignore them! The ability to dedicate one’s self just for the benefit of society is a sham, pointless and worthless.
             

             IMPROVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP SKILLS
          Improving a relationship is same as focusing on friendship. We often fail to remember our friends if we are with our bf/gf, Cause of course, our priority and concentration are with him. This instance, make time as a friend for you to make it up to them especially your old folks. When you are single, you can do everything you wanted to do with variety of things, you will have more time to know about yourself. It is also an opportunity to meet other people and gain companionship towards them. In this stage, friendship will be a priority in your life to create a meaningful connection and enriches the existing one.  

          APPRECIATE FREEDOM AND THE VALUE OF GOODNESS YOU ALREADY HAVE IN YOUT LIFE RIGHT NOW.
                        Being single doesn’t mean being lost and lonesome -You don’t realize how precious the freedom to be       wherever you want at whatever time without having to answer to anyone is until you have lost it. Imagine when you can no longer spend time out with the boys/girls without any guilt. One good thing is you could still flirt, date and hang out with whomever without guilt and stop whenever you choose to. And no, the freedom to sleep wherever you want with anyone ends with the single life too.

            HAVE A PURPOSE IN LIFE

              How do you discern you real purpose in life? I’m not talking about your job, responsibilities and achievements, your long term goals and all that! I mean the very reason of your existence - the motive why you’re here at all! Well, for me, you need to have the ability of accepting things – the real things - the reality! We should know who we are, what we want and how we like to live our life. Our purpose in life is whatever we make it. If we are aware of what our purpose is, then, we have to set guidelines to follow and be enthusiastic enough of reaching them. Discovering your purpose might be the easy part; the hard part is keeping it with you on a daily basis and working on yourself to the point where you become that purpose.






              "Purpose is what gives life a meaning."


              related article: A Balance View on Singleness

              1 comments:

              1. Chacha said...:

                nice kaau ma single bayts..single njud ko balik kei..haha!

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