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Just another enjoyable weekend for the “laagan” people. Actually, it was just a spur of the moment decision, much unprepared and off the cup getaway. I thought it was just Jc and I who could make that “laag” possible cos’ our friends declined ahead of time. Jc fetched me up at 6’Oclock in the morning and just as we left the house, our phone kept on beeping and surprises blast when we received messages from our friends saying that they wants to come with us. One message leads to another until everybody confirmed! We met at Starmart Kauswagan and left CDO at 9’Oclock in the morning.
Just another enjoyable weekend for the “laagan” people. Actually, it was just a spur of the moment decision, much unprepared and off the cup getaway. I thought it was just Jc and I who could make that “laag” possible cos’ our friends declined ahead of time. Jc fetched me up at 6’Oclock in the morning and just as we left the house, our phone kept on beeping and surprises blast when we received messages from our friends saying that they wants to come with us. One message leads to another until everybody confirmed! We met at Starmart Kauswagan and left CDO at 9’Oclock in the morning.
I
don’t know if it’s right for me to say “unlucky” or a “pleasant” trek when the rain
burst out, we were trapped not just once but thrice. Here are some of the
photos:
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
- February 15, 2012
- elj
- Cagayan de Oro City
- 1 comment
Happy Heart’s Day
^^
Here are some of our photos but I missed to take photos of food, good views, etc.
I know it’s a lil
bit late yet I’d still wanted to share of what transpired on this very special
day.
I was not expecting something
from my lovey (Jc) at that moment cos I know that we both were so busy preparing
for our trip to Bohol and aside from that our work were exhaustingly demands
our time. Getting flowers from him at noon time was good enough for me since I so
love flowers. But what surprises me was the occurrence in the afternoon. I was
having my manicure session when he picked me up.
I wasn’t think of a special date especially when he arrived wearing his usual “laag” get up (shirt and shorts). I thought we will just have dinner and joy-riding like we usually did but it surprises me when we traveled distantly from the City and experienced an adventurous yet a very romantic date.
I wasn’t think of a special date especially when he arrived wearing his usual “laag” get up (shirt and shorts). I thought we will just have dinner and joy-riding like we usually did but it surprises me when we traveled distantly from the City and experienced an adventurous yet a very romantic date.
We traveled far and enough for
my mind to generate whys and where. Without a single word, He brought me to a
place passed through a river and trailed along a perilous mountain road. Just
try to imagine a very long, curvy, rocky road, very dark with the only light
was the stars and the vehicle headlight that glows up your way, a road with the
only things you’ve seen are giant trees, the only sound you’ve heard is the groan
of unseen forest brute, noise of your vehicle and a heart that hastily palpitating.
I was terribly frightened at that moment
and my mind had even formulated an off-putting thought about him (sorry for
that). Duh!! … I never imagine wandering in a mountain just for a date
considering the danger that lies ahead.
All the way through, I was just closing my eyes feeling the snaking
road and often hearing him says “just hold on, trust me”. I never looked up
until I’ve heard the engine stops. With
a troubled mind, I slowly opened up my eyes. And you know what? What I saw really took
my breath away. It makes me shiver and gasping of the wonders that I saw, the
fresh air that I breathe, the stillness, and the romantic milieu that slickly
greets me. I couldn't say a word than "Wow", I never imagine of such romantic resto located in the mountain
peak with amazing views of mountain, sea and city lights overlooking the whole Cagayan
de Oro, A fine dining resto with affordable and mouth-watering foods that would
make you forget your diet. With these, I was overwhelmed of an incredible
feeling that makes me forgot what we went through before we reach the peak.
Here are some of our photos but I missed to take photos of food, good views, etc.
“Our
relationship goes through a lot of trials and sacrifices even reach the point
of giving up and I know that there still a lot more of it that waits ahead.
Very dark, scary, risky and terrible but no matter what happened “just hold on
and trust me” cos I know that at the end of the line, we’ll end up happy and
victorious. Just like what we encountered and overcome before we reached the
beauty of the mountain top”
FROM JC
And
when you look back all the trials
you endured in the past,
it will
such an incredible feeling to know
that..
YOU
MADE IT LAST!!!
Nevertheless, “Valentine’s Day means different things to
different people,” Regardless of expenditure
and uniqueness of how you celebrated heart’s day – what pays more is the
thought and memories that you’ve shared with your loved one whether your
partner, family, friends or to whom you with. That memory is very much
treasured and would always will.
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
- December 06, 2011
- elj
- Collection of Poems n' Stories
- 4 comments
Christmas is here!
I think we are all
familiar with the Christmas song, “12 Days of Christmas, ayt? Especially for the Catholics, the song was frequently
sung in the church during Christmas season over the years.. But does everybody know
what the real meaning of this song? We may think that it is just an ordinary phrase
with a list of strange gifts, repetitious melody and a nonsense verse set to
music but essentially, it has a quite serious intention when it was written.
CATHOLIC WAS A
CRIME!
During the period
1558 to 1829, Parliament emancipated Catholics in England where Catholics were
prohibited from practicing their faith whether in private or public (by-law).
Anyone caught indicating adherence to the Catholic faith could not only get
imprisoned, it could also get you hanged, shortened by head, drawn and
quartered or a very ghastly punishment.
Hanging,
drawing and quartering involved hanging a person by the neck until they had
almost, but not quite, suffocated to death; then the party was taken down from
the gallows, and eviscerate while still alive; and while the entrails were
still lying on the street, where the executioners stomped all over them, the
victim was tied to four large farm horses, and literally torn into five parts -
one to each limb and the remaining torso.
(
http://www.byrum.org/misc/christmas/origin.html)
"The Twelve Days of Christmas" was
written in England as one of the "catechism songs". Since, Catholic
faith was a transgression, the author inscribe his faith through a very strange
yet symbolic gift to help young Catholics learn the tenets of their faith.
Religious symbolism of “The Twelve Days of
Christmas”.
On the 1st day of
Christmas my true love gave to me...
A Partridge in a Pear Tree
The partridge in a pear tree is Jesus the Christ, the Son of God, whose birthday we celebrate on December 25, the first day of Christmas. In the song, Christ is symbolically presented as a mother partridge that feigns injury to decoy predators from her helpless nestlings, recalling the expression of Christ's sadness over the fate of Jerusalem: "Jerusalem! Jerusalem! How often would I have sheltered you under my wings, as a hen does her chicks, but you would not have it so . . . ." (Luke 13:34)
On the 2nd day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Two Turtle Doves
The Old and New Testaments, which together bear witness to God's self-revelation in history and the creation of a people to tell the Story of God to the world.
On the 3rd
day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Three French Hens
The Three Theological Virtues: 1) Faith, 2) Hope, and 3) Love (1 Corinthians 13:13)
On
the 4th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Four Calling Birds
The Four Gospels: 1) Matthew, 2) Mark, 3) Luke, and 4) John, which proclaim the Good News of God's reconciliation of the world to Himself in Jesus Christ.
On the 5th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Five Gold Rings
The first Five Books of the Old Testament, known as the Torah or the Pentateuch: 1) Genesis, 2) Exodus, 3) Leviticus, 4) Numbers, and 5) Deuteronomy, which gives the history of humanity's sinful failure and God's response of grace in the creation of a people to be a light to the world.
On
the 6th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Six Geese A-laying
The six days of creation that confesses God as Creator and Sustainer of the world (Genesis 1).
On the 7th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Seven Swans A-swimming
The seven gifts of the Holy Spirit: 1) prophecy, 2) ministry, 3) teaching, 4) exhortation, 5) giving, 6) leading, and 7) compassion (Romans 12:6-8; cf. 1 Corinthians 12:8-11)
On the 8th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Eight Maids
A-milking
The eight Beatitudes: 1) Blessed are the poor in spirit, 2) those who mourn, 3) the meek, 4) those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, 5) the merciful, 6) the pure in heart, 7) the peacemakers, 8) those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake. (Matthew 5:3-10)
On
the 9th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Nine Ladies Dancing
The nine Fruit of the Holy Spirit: 1) love, 2) joy, 3) peace, 4) patience, 5) kindness,
6) generosity, 7) faithfulness, 8) gentleness, and 9) self-control. (Galatians 5:22)
On the 10th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Ten Lords A-leaping
The ten commandments: 1) You shall have no other gods before me; 2) Do not make an idol; 3) Do not take God's name in vain; 4) Remember the Sabbath Day; 5) Honor your father and mother; 6) Do not murder; 7) Do not commit adultery; 8) Do not steal; 9) Do not bear false witness; 10) Do not covet. (Exodus 20:1-17)
On the 11th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Eleven Pipers Piping
The eleven Faithful Apostles: 1) Simon Peter, 2) Andrew, 3) James, 4) John, 5) Philip, 6) Bartholomew, 7) Matthew, 8) Thomas, 9) James bar Alphaeus, 10) Simon the Zealot, 11) Judas bar James. (Luke 6:14-16). The list does not include the twelfth disciple, Judas Iscariot who betrayed Jesus to the religious leaders and the Romans.
On
the 12th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Twelve Drummers Drumming
The twelve points of doctrine in the Apostles' Creed: 1) I believe in God, the Father almighty, creator of heaven and earth. 2) I believe in Jesus Christ, his only Son, our Lord. 3) He was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit and born of the virgin Mary. 4) He suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried. He descended into hell [the grave]. 5) On the third day he rose again. He ascended into heaven, and is seated at the right hand of the Father. 6) He will come again to judge the living and the dead. 7) I believe in the Holy Spirit, 8) the holy catholic Church, 9) the communion of saints, 10) the forgiveness of sins, 11) the resurrection of the body, 12) and life everlasting.
Source: http://www.crivoice.org/cy12days.html
Monday, November 28, 2011
- November 28, 2011
- elj
- Cagayan de Oro City
- 1 comment
Nov 20,
2011(Sunday) – For almost a year being with the SFC pips, it was my first time
to bond together in a fellowship (they had couple of activities though). I was
not supposed to join cos I was a lil depleted and thought of resting instead,
but my DGL (Stela) shown up at home so I settled on and go along with
them.
The Unit
1- SFC Nazareno’s fellowship took place at Tropical Pool, Bulua Cagayan de Oro
City. We really had fun eating, playing, swimming together and most of all -
the inexhaustible and never ending “picture taking”
Here are
some of the pics:
Unit 1 SFC - Nazareno Members
I dunno what we're playing but it's kinda like "recognizing
positive traits" - by ems macas
Oh! I dunno what we're looking at - "murag naay gwapo"
The pool and the nymphs? :D
The Disney inspired Spot?
The nymphs getting out of their habitat? or tree models? Whatever!
I have a lot of photos to share but I'd still need to gather 'em from the cam's owner.
To SFC: Thank you guys and I really enjoyed being with you!
It was really worth my time :) Love you all ;)
Monday, November 14, 2011
- November 14, 2011
- elj
- Collection of Poems n' Stories
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What is a friend? Ill tell you
It is a person with whom you are
to be
yourself –Your soul can go naked
with him
He seems to ask you to put on
nothing
Appreciating you for who you
truthfully are
When you are with him, you do not
have to be
on your guard .You can say what
you think
So long as it is genuinely you
He understands the contradictions
in your
nature which cause others to
misjudge you. With him you
breathe freely….
You can profess your little
vanities,
Envies and absurdities –and in
opening
Them up to him, they are vanished
Onto the white ocean of his
loyalty
He understands. You can weep with
him,
laugh with him, pray with him
through it all, he sees, knows
and loves you
- November 14, 2011
- elj
- Collection of Poems n' Stories
- 1 comment
Standing tall and strong, he is my
hero.
Placing my small hands into his,
feeling nothing could beat us.
Smiling up at him,
Looking into my Daddy's eyes.
He can do anything, for he is so brave.
He knows how to make me laugh
when I feel sad.
There is nothing better than
Looking into my Daddy's eyes.
I love when he dances with me,
standing on his toes,
we move around the room
While looking up
into my Daddy's eyes.
He makes me feel big and grown,
taking his hands, knowing
nothing can hurt my Daddy and me.
When I am afraid, all I have to do
Is look into my Daddy's eyes.
Many years have come and gone,
no longer that little child,
still I look forward to taking
my Daddy's hands
and looking into his eyes.
Seeing in his eyes,
forever I'll be
Daddy's little girl.
Placing my small hands into his,
feeling nothing could beat us.
Smiling up at him,
Looking into my Daddy's eyes.
He can do anything, for he is so brave.
He knows how to make me laugh
when I feel sad.
There is nothing better than
Looking into my Daddy's eyes.
I love when he dances with me,
standing on his toes,
we move around the room
While looking up
into my Daddy's eyes.
He makes me feel big and grown,
taking his hands, knowing
nothing can hurt my Daddy and me.
When I am afraid, all I have to do
Is look into my Daddy's eyes.
Many years have come and gone,
no longer that little child,
still I look forward to taking
my Daddy's hands
and looking into his eyes.
Seeing in his eyes,
forever I'll be
Daddy's little girl.
Monday, October 3, 2011
- October 03, 2011
- elj
- Collection of Poems n' Stories
- No comments
Once upon a time, there was an island where all the
feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including
Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so
all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.
Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.
When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.
Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."
Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.
Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"
Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.
Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,
Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.
When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.
Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."
Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.
Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"
Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.
Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,
Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered,
"Because only Time is
capable of understanding how valuable Love is."
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
- June 01, 2011
- elj
- My "LJ" - Lovely Journey
- 2 comments
Mind- numbing and so irksome day at home, so I'm looking for something fun to do. To my dismay, I found nothing so interesting. With a choice no more, I stumble on my laptop again. I should have been out of this mode “internet, screens and all that” since its Sunday – “My eye’s rest day”.
Anyway, look what I got – I trip up on pictures again and all of a sudden I felt like posting some of my old stuffs -- so I end up blogging.
I set back on my earlier days in Sticky Media – all the events, lakwatsa and everything that came to pass.
Lemme start with the first assembly that ever grace with my presence – The “UNITED NATIONS General Assembly”. The assembly took place 1 O’clock in the afternoon at Pearlmont Inn, October ’09.
It was my batch’s first time so we were super excited… We even pay out a lot of money for this event (Costume, hair and make-up, transpo, etc). We went to the venue together (11 of us) with supeeeer vongga costume and a veeerry very “grand entrance” – lingi gud tanan kay na "LATE" man.. heheheh
Ms Karen introduced us (the newbies)
With our CEO - Mr. Gus Rodano
With Ms Ryla Lim - GearySEO Supervisor
Candidates kunuhay mi ^_^
International Leader's discussion
Performing "Nobody, nobody but YOU"
See the ROYAL MOVES :D
See the ROYAL MOVES :D
We came late yet we do have a fun-filled day with SMSI ..
Thanks for welcoming all of us to the SMSI Family!
Sunday, May 29, 2011
- May 29, 2011
- elj
- My "LJ" - Lovely Journey
- 10 comments
Friday noon, my siblings make fun of taking pictures at home when we surprisingly captured a “strange creature”. It was nothing at first but as we scanned through the other shots, we noticed that the creature was shockingly present. My siblings were stunned knowing who they with and I on the other hand, was in awe doubting of its existent.
Until, we conclusively make out a “bride-like” creature wearing a vintage “traje de boda” (early 80’s, I guess).
Here were some of the shots..
My siblings - Dondon and Darling
Take a closer look on this - WEIRD , isn't it?
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
- February 23, 2011
- elj
- Collection of Poems n' Stories
- No comments
What if you meet the love of your life, are you supposed to let them pass you by?
He's Just Not That into You is an American romantic comedy film, based on the self-help book of the same name by Greg Behrendtand Liz Tuccillo, The film features an ensemble cast that includes Ben Affleck, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Scarlett Johansson, Sasha Alexander, Justin Long, Jennifer Connelly, Ginnifer Goodwin, Kevin Connolly, and Bradley Cooper.
Nine people in Baltimore deal with their respective romantic problems, usually thwarted by the differing ideals and desires of their chosen partner. At the center of this is Gigi (Ginnifer Goodwin), a young woman who repeatedly misinterprets the behavior of her romantic partners. well, To know the twist of the story, you better watch it ;)
And that same wise person told me that I'm the rule. That I have to stop thinking that every guy will change, that I have to stop thinking that...
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
- February 16, 2011
- elj
- My "LJ" - Lovely Journey
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As i was surfing my Blog List, I viewed the page of my new added friend ---Laping -ZHARIE'S HAVEN- there's a post that i was really eager to take. I took the personality test from http://www.ipersonic.com And just like Laping, i really had fun reading the results too.. According to the result, I am an "Engaged Idealists", well, to know what an Engaged Idealists is...just read along^^
Engaged Idealists
are extroverted and helpful. Others find them to be very congenial and inspiring - especially as they are always willing to see the best in the other person. Their humour, their energy and their optimism attract other people. Engaged Idealists are very good at communicating and are good at convincing and firing on others. That is why it is a matter of course that they often take over the leading role in groups. This personality type often produces very charismatic persons.
Engaged Idealists have an unusually strong ability to empathise. They are tolerant and generous towards others; they sometimes tend to idealise their friends. They always try to suit everybody and want their relationships to be harmonious and satisfactory. To achieve this, they are prepared to invest a great deal and to put their requirements last. As Engaged Idealists are very considerate, there is the danger of them sacrificing and overexerting themselves for others. In their job, they therefore have to be very careful not to develop a burnout syndrome.
Engaged Idealists are reliable, well organised and love structuring complicated situations. They have difficulty accepting criticism; they quickly feel hurt and misunderstood. Their perfectionism also influences their love life - they look for the perfect relationship for life. Once they have made their decision, they are faithful, well-balanced and loving partners. However, should they get involved with the wrong person, it can happen that they allow themselves to be exploited for a long time before they end the relationship.
are extroverted and helpful. Others find them to be very congenial and inspiring - especially as they are always willing to see the best in the other person. Their humour, their energy and their optimism attract other people. Engaged Idealists are very good at communicating and are good at convincing and firing on others. That is why it is a matter of course that they often take over the leading role in groups. This personality type often produces very charismatic persons.
Engaged Idealists have an unusually strong ability to empathise. They are tolerant and generous towards others; they sometimes tend to idealise their friends. They always try to suit everybody and want their relationships to be harmonious and satisfactory. To achieve this, they are prepared to invest a great deal and to put their requirements last. As Engaged Idealists are very considerate, there is the danger of them sacrificing and overexerting themselves for others. In their job, they therefore have to be very careful not to develop a burnout syndrome.
Engaged Idealists are reliable, well organised and love structuring complicated situations. They have difficulty accepting criticism; they quickly feel hurt and misunderstood. Their perfectionism also influences their love life - they look for the perfect relationship for life. Once they have made their decision, they are faithful, well-balanced and loving partners. However, should they get involved with the wrong person, it can happen that they allow themselves to be exploited for a long time before they end the relationship.
Adjectives which describe your type: extroverted, theoretical, emotional, planning, idealistic, committed, likable, enthusiastic, responsible, helpful, loyal, diplomatic, friendly, inspiring, caring, solicitous, optimistic, effusive, adaptable, communicative, articulate, convincing, energetic, optimistic, open, vulnerable
Engaged Idealist: Love
For you, love is the Alpha and Omega in life - you simply can’t be happy without it. No other type falls in love as quickly, strongly, and passionately. That has a lot to do with your limitless enthusiasm, and that does not only apply to things, but to people as well. When you love someone, you put him/her on a pedestal, surround him/her in a blaze of glory, and idealize him/her to the point that the people around you occasionally begin to doubt your soundness of mind.
Interestingly enough, you are normally blessed with excellent antennas for nuances. However, when you are in love, some systems appear to be defective: You won’t see a single spot on the white shining armor of your dream prince/princess, because you are convinced that he/she is a pure angel who fell from the clouds and landed right at your feet.
For the “target” of your affection, this passion is simply overwhelming. Who would not love to be raised into heaven, to be showered with your unconditional adoration and admiration? You court the partner of your choice with infinite imagination, empathy, and charm giving him/her no chance to resist. If you chose well, this can end in a long and happy relationship because you are a faithful and dedicate person who is willing to invest a lot into the partnership. In the long run, it is always given the most important priority in your life. As far as you are concerned, you entered a union for life, and you take nothing more seriously than the obliga-tion you took on out of love. Dedicated, you try tirelessly to divine your partner’s wishes before he/she is aware of them him/herself, and if at all possible, immediately satisfy them.
Engaged Idealist: career
As an Engaged Idealist you are one of the extroverted personality types. You enjoy working in a colorfully diverse group of people who interest and inspire you. Working in a “secluded room” is not your thing. You enjoy emphasizing with those around you and soon everybody senses the high priority and importance people represent to you. Therefore a team-oriented project is just right for you.
Your insight into human nature, your feel for your colleague’s and/or subordinate’s positive sides and potentials and your preparedness to encourage and support everyone around you to the best of your ability quickly brings them closer to you. People like to ask you for advice, appreciate your caring ways and appreciate to be taken under your wings. Within your means you are always available to others who need you because you yourself enjoy the ultimate gratification of being able to help others to make the best of themselves and to be successful mediating conflicts among people.
You are well suited to be an executive: It is difficult to resist your charisma, your enthusiasm and your ability to excite and motivate others. Authoritarian management attitudes are not your thing; it is your way to convince others of a project’s reason and significance who will then look forward to follow you voluntarily. You place a lot of value on creating the willingness to cooperate in others and with your gift to motivate that usually comes easy to you. You do not enjoy conflicts, need harmony and invest lots of energy and time in a good working climate and a harmonic relationship of your colleagues among each other.
With your customers you also prefer to maintain friendly and sincere contacts that are characterized by mutual support and goodwill. To “pull someone across the table” in order to get an economic advantage does not even enter your mind; you would rather create a “win-win” situation so that everybody departs with the feeling of having been successful. Consequently you are appreciated as a trustworthy, reliable and tolerant boss, colleague and business partner. You are not made for working in environments that depend on steel elbows, aggressive competition and assertiveness at any price. Envy, resentment and a continuously strained atmosphere make you feel uncomfortable.
Your insight into human nature, your feel for your colleague’s and/or subordinate’s positive sides and potentials and your preparedness to encourage and support everyone around you to the best of your ability quickly brings them closer to you. People like to ask you for advice, appreciate your caring ways and appreciate to be taken under your wings. Within your means you are always available to others who need you because you yourself enjoy the ultimate gratification of being able to help others to make the best of themselves and to be successful mediating conflicts among people.
You are well suited to be an executive: It is difficult to resist your charisma, your enthusiasm and your ability to excite and motivate others. Authoritarian management attitudes are not your thing; it is your way to convince others of a project’s reason and significance who will then look forward to follow you voluntarily. You place a lot of value on creating the willingness to cooperate in others and with your gift to motivate that usually comes easy to you. You do not enjoy conflicts, need harmony and invest lots of energy and time in a good working climate and a harmonic relationship of your colleagues among each other.
With your customers you also prefer to maintain friendly and sincere contacts that are characterized by mutual support and goodwill. To “pull someone across the table” in order to get an economic advantage does not even enter your mind; you would rather create a “win-win” situation so that everybody departs with the feeling of having been successful. Consequently you are appreciated as a trustworthy, reliable and tolerant boss, colleague and business partner. You are not made for working in environments that depend on steel elbows, aggressive competition and assertiveness at any price. Envy, resentment and a continuously strained atmosphere make you feel uncomfortable.
Well, some of those"i guess" is true and others are... well, no comment^^ i think i need my friends to bear out on it...hehehh..I choose to leave it to my friends opinion and for them to attest too^^
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